I love my mom and dad but they weren’t always the best at teaching us kids about financial responsibility. Growing up, money was simply something we didn’t talk about. I don’t blame them–I honestly believe they did what they felt was right–but I do think that lack of a basic understanding about money unfortunately started me on a path of bad money management, one that has taken much of my adult life to overcome.
As a parent, I don’t want to see my kids take that same path. I don’t think any age is to young to start teaching your kids financial wisdom–at least in the most basic of terms–or to start talking to them about how to manage their money. I want my 5 year old to understand that money is not unlimited, and that she has to work to earn the things she wants, and that saving and investing and giving back to others is important too. It’s not an easy task, when you think about it.
A few weeks ago I was contacted by a company called Kidworth to see if I would be interested in reviewing their financial website for kids. I’ll admit I was a little skeptical to begin with, but the website blew me away. It is a super simple, very user-friendly way of giving your kids a concrete way of setting financial goals. It’s practically genius.
I was a little worried that Princess wouldn’t quite “get it” but she actually loved it, and it was fast and easy enough to set up that she didn’t lose interest. We first picked the ‘fun’ spending goals & she got to tell me 2 things that she really wants to buy. Shockingly, they were both princess-related items. (We looked up the prices on Amazon to know what monetary goal to set.)
The savings goals were a little tougher for her to understand but she liked the cute piggy pictures so we picked investing and a savings account. As a family, I think it will be a good goal for us to talk about and learn more about investing by using money the girls have saved and seeing what we can do with it. I honestly know nothing about investments, so it will be a project for all of us!
Finally we talked about how important it is to share with others who might not have all the things that we have, a conversation that we started last week when we did our Operation Christmas Child boxes. Kidworth has a bunch of different charities to choose from, so I explained a little about each one and she ultimately chose the ASPCA because “she wanted to help cute doggies.”
All-in-all, it took us about 10 minutes to set up, then she was back off into Princess land.
But here is what I think is so cool about it (besides the fact that it is FREE): Now that she has her page set up, we can share it with friends and family and give them the chance to help support her goals. Instead of giving physical gifts for birthdays and holidays, they can contribute to any one of her goals. She can then see how much she has towards any particular goal and how much further she has to go. (Trouble is still a little too young to understand it, but I have set up a page for her as well with only some savings goals. When she gets older, she can add her own.)
We are beyond blessed to have an awesome network of super fun & creative friends who love to socialize and entertain. Every month there is at least one–and usually more–birthday party to attend and buy a gift for. I honestly don’t mind buying gifts for my friends’ kids–I actually think it is a lot of fun–and I’m pretty sure they don’t mind buying stuff for my kids either. The problem is that with so many kids in the mix, it is just so much STUFF. My daughters have more than enough!
I love the idea of having us decide as a group that Kidworth is what we will do instead–help our kids make financial goals for themselves, and then support each other in reaching them. (For my friends who read this blog: you know who you are and I’m totally serious about this!)
I will leave with a frightening statistic: The average kid gets between $25,000-$30,000 worth of stuff by the time they are 18 and yet the average 18 year-old has a net worth of ZERO dollars. All that money spent and nothing to show for it. This is not the legacy I want to leave for my kids!
Imagine how much better off all our kids will be if, in 10 or 15 years, instead of a pile of broken plastic toys, they each have their own savings account, investment portfolio, and, most importantly the essential life tools of knowing how to make good financial decisions. It is perhaps the most precious gift we can give them.
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~she~ November 16, 2011 at 7:59 pm
So true. We purchased the Dave Ramsey program for our kids but never even took it out of the box. Sad. We need to get moving on their financial education.
Jessica Washburn November 16, 2011 at 9:25 pm
Great post. I’m all about budgeting and teaching our kids financial responsability. My kids have learned to first pay 10% to tithing, then put 25% into savings and then they can spend the rest. I like the idea of that website. I’ll have to check it out. Thanks!!
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Ruth November 17, 2011 at 8:47 pm
That’s an awesome habit to get your kids into!
Claire November 16, 2011 at 11:27 pm
I LOVE this, Ruth! Thanks so much for sharing. I will look at this with my two younger boys this weekend. Sadly, we didn’t get started earlier in saving for the 16 year old and the other day he said “Mom, you should have set up an account earning compound interest when I was little.” I just stared at him (and then secretly felt like a failure for the whole evening. lol ).
PS: Tell Princess she has the best taste in her choice of branded toys
Ruth November 17, 2011 at 8:46 pm
LOL, Claire your comments always crack me up. I’m pretty sure you’re not a failure.
I will let Princess know!
Mimi November 17, 2011 at 7:48 pm
Hi Ruth
My favorite part of your website is your Thursday publix shopping post. I use your shopping list as a guide and it has always helped me keep control of my Publix trip.
Any chance you might bring that feature back? I enjoy your shopping trip videos also and find them to be a good learning tool. No offense but all the other stuff such as fashion/crafts does not appeal to me.
Thank you
Ruth November 17, 2011 at 8:45 pm
Hi Mimi-
No offense taken! I actually did a reader survey a few weeks ago to find out exactly what people enjoyed reading about the most. As it turns out, people either love or hate the shopping result posts, with very few opinions in between. Those who do love the shopping results tended to be the same readers who are more interested in coupons in general, so I decided to move the shopping results over to my sister site, http://www.savingwellspendingless.com.
The shopping results will now be posted on SWSL every Friday afternoon. My personal shopping stories will be alternated with my 2 SWSL partners, Jenny & Alisha, who shop at a few different stores, including Walmart, Kroger, Target, Shoprite, & Genuardis (Safeway). The link to the SWSL shopping results can be found here:
http://www.savingwellspendingless.com/category/shopping-results/
Hope that helps–have a great day!
Mimi November 19, 2011 at 2:37 am
I very much appreciate the good news. See you over at Saving well Spending less!!
leeAnn November 21, 2011 at 8:29 pm
Ruth- Is this what you had mentioned at dinner the other night? Sound good.
Ruth November 21, 2011 at 8:32 pm
Yes it is! Yay! I’m so glad you guys are on board!
Zsa Zsa November 24, 2011 at 6:14 am
Great post,very insightful. I too grew up in a home that didn’t really teach me much about financial management early on, but I don’t blame my folks. I think it’s very important to teach kids about the value of money and to train them to grow up knowing how to manage their finances. Training at a young age really is a must. Thanks for reminding us of this important task.