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Ever wonder why some people are able to achieve all those things they set out to do, while others seem to just sit there making excuses, worrying about all the things that could go wrong, or waiting for circumstances to be perfect?  The truth is that it often not that are goals and dreams are too big, but that they aren't big ENOUGH. The magic of thinking big is that it forces us to take action.  If you are tired of waiting to make your dreams a reality, this is one post you can't afford to miss.  In fact, it might just change everything!

Every morning at 4am, while the rest of the world is still asleep, I head out for my morning walk. And while that might sound like torture to many people, it’s actually my favorite part of the whole day, the time where the whole world is just mine. It’s my time to think and dream and listen to audiobooks and make sense of the world, to get purpose and clarity on who I am and where I am going. And I wouldn’t give it up for anything.


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Lately I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about goals and motivation and why some people are able to achieve the things they want, and others seem to just sit there making excuses, worrying about all the things that could go wrong, or waiting for circumstances to be perfect.

And I think it comes down to how bad you really want it.

You see, when you want something, I mean really want it, you can feel it in every bone in your body, that drive, that hunger, that internal pressure to achieve. You don’t need anyone else to push you—you’re more than willing to do whatever it takes. And it doesn’t feel like work, either. Oh sure, there might be hard days and annoying moments, but they are worth it because every step you take is getting you closer to that goal.

And if you don’t feel that? Then maybe your goal isn’t big enough.

The Magic of Thinking Big

When I first started this blog, Living Well Spending Less®, I set a goal for myself to make enough money blogging that my husband—an aerospace engineer—could quit his job and become a stay-at-home dad. At the time, it was a completely crazy goal that seemed utterly impossible, and my husband told me as much, insisting that I would never be able to make money from a blog.

But I wanted it so bad, I could almost taste it, and I was determined to do whatever it took to make that crazy dream a reality.

And so, with two toddlers at home, I started getting up at 3am every morning—and often even earlier—in order to work on my blog before anyone else was up. I took advantage of every naptime, every weekend, and every spare moment. And when I wasn’t working on the blog itself, I was learning everything I could about the business of blogging, from SEO to social media to how to actually generate revenue.

I’m not going to lie, it was a pretty exhausting time. There were lots of downsides. My husband couldn’t understand why on earth I was spending all my time on a blog that he was sure would never amount to anything. My real life friends laughed at me to my face and talked about me behind my back. My kids watched way too much Dora the Explorer and Wildcrats. I didn’t get nearly enough sleep. I had almost no life. And even though it was hard, to me the effort was worth every sacrifice, because I could see the vision of what this blog could be, even if no one else could at the time.

In 2013, nearly three years after starting this blog, that dream became a reality. My husband was able to quit his job and we’ve never looked back. The blog—and the full-fledged business that has grown out of it—has continued to grow and flourish.

But that’s not the end of the story.

You see, once I actually achieved that crazy big goal, the one everyone–even me–thought was totally impossible, I was left with two very clear choices. I could sit back and coast, or I could set some NEW crazy big goals, new dreams that would keep me hungry and keep me jumping out of bed before dawn every day.

You probably know which one I chose.

Whether you are a blogger or own your own business, or whether you are a working mom or a stay-at-home mom, you might think setting small, reasonable goals is the way to go. After all, small reasonable goals seem safe and, well, reasonable, right?


I am here to tell you that thinking small won’t get you anywhere. For your dreams to motivate you to action, they have to big enough to scare you a little, to ignite that spark of courage and determination that lives inside you.

How to Set Better Goals

The Magic of Thinking Big

Have you ever heard of a football coach named Lou Holtz? In 1966, when he was twenty-eight years old, Lou Holtz was going through a serious rough patch. His coaching career going nowhere. He was broke and unemployed. And, to make matters even worse, his wife was expecting their third child.

Something had to give.

Hoping to motivate him, his wife bought him a book called The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz. The book worked. Inspired by what he read, Holtz decided that the key to changing his life was make a list of all the BIG things he really wanted to achieve in life.

His list included some pretty audacious goals, such as becoming the Notre Dame football coach, meeting the president, landing on an aircraft carrier, and appearing on The Tonight Show—CRAZY things that most people would have laughed at him for even considering.

But guess what? Not only did Lou Holtz become the head football coach at Notre Dame, but he also led his team to a National Championship. Among other things, he enjoyed dinner with Ronald Regan at the White House, was a guest on The Tonight Show, met the pope, shot not one but two holes-in-one at golf, jumped out of an airplane, went on a safari in Africa, and yes, he even landed on an aircraft carrier.

To date, Lou Holtz has crossed off 102 of his 107 lifetime goals.

But what people often forget is that as awe-inspiring as Lou Holtz turned out to be, he didn’t start out that way. He was just an ordinary guy full of the same frustrations and failures and self-doubt that we ALL experience sometimes. In fact, at one point his poor pregnant wife was wringing her hands just wondering how to get him off the couch!

But ultimately the difference between Lou Holtz and so many others was that he became not only willing to imagine a better life for himself in the biggest possible ways, he was also willing to write those goals down and make them real. Once he they were real to him, he was able to take the steps necessary to make those goals happen.

Personal Goal Setting

Why You Need a Stretch Goal

In his most recent book, “Smarter, Faster, Better,” bestselling author Charles Duhigg explains that while we often hear about the importance of setting “SMART” goals—goals that are Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Realistic, and Time-Bound,” there is an even more critical piece of effective goal-setting-that often gets forgotten.

So what is this critical element?

According to Duhigg, it is starting with what he calls a “stretch goal.” In other words? It is thinking BIG. “The problem with many to do lists,” he explains,” is that when we write down nothing but a series of short term objectives we are only working to satisfy the immediate need for closure.”

He goes on to explain that without a BIG goal to reach for and tell us what to focus on, we will spend hours on unimportant tasks simply because it feels good to check them off our list.

But here’s the thing–the true secret of productivity is being able to focus 100% of your attention on your biggest, most important tasks at any given time.

And while that sounds so simple, I’ve discovered that for most of us, it’s not. There are a few big obstacles that get in our way. We don’t know what the most important task is. We are too distracted. We are afraid we might miss something.

But all these obstacles point to one larger problem, and that is that we don’t have a BIG plan for success. Instead of thinking BIG and allowing ourselves to consider—and shoot for—the wildest possibilities, we think small, allowing ourselves to get mired down in the day-to-day grind.

We tell ourselves there is too much to do to worry about pie-in-the-sky ideals; that it is more important to worry about where our next paycheck is going to come from than what our retirement plan will be.

But busy is not the same as productive.

And so before we can figure out how to focus 100% of our attention on our biggest, most important tasks, we need to give ourselves permission to think BIG.

The reality is that big goals get big results, while small goals get small results. What you will become is what you believe you can become, and the bigger and scarier your goal, the more chance you will have for big success.

Big goals are the road map for our lives that tell us what direction we need to go. They are the compass that keep us on the right path. They are the filter that lets us know what is important and what is not worth our time. Big goals are the key to success.

The Magic of Thinking Big

Overcoming Your Limiting Beliefs

So what holds us back from setting—and therefore achieving—these big goals? Almost always, it is something known as a limiting belief—a thought or belief we have about ourselves that holds us back from achieving our full potential.

These limiting beliefs can come in all shapes and sizes, and appear in all different areas of our lives. They are also shape shifters—re-emerging in a new way each time we think we’ve overcome one. Most of us have many limiting beliefs, but I believe that all of us have at least a few.

It might be that we don’t believe that we actually have anything valuable to offer the world, or that we aren’t as talented or witty or well-spoken as so-and-so. It might be that we don’t believe we can actually accomplish those things that we’ve thought about doing, or that we’re not smart enough to be successful. It might be that we don’t want to invest in ourselves because we might fail. It might be that we don’t want to reach out and ask for help because we might get rejected. It might be that we don’t want to put 100 percent of our energy and efforts into a new project because we’re not sure what the people around us will say. What if they don’t understand? What if they make fun of us?

Whatever your limiting beliefs may be, I guarantee they are there. And while we can’t always stop those limiting beliefs from popping up, we CAN refuse to listen to them. Because once we’ve recognized a limiting belief for what it is—just a thought that is holding us back—we can take away the power it has over us and move past it.

How to Set Better Goals

Conquering the Fear of Failure

I think that the biggest limiting belief that most people have is the fear that they might fail. Because let’s face it—none of us want to fail! And often that fear that we might make a mistake or a misstep, that we might fall flat on our face or lose all the time or money that we’ve invested becomes completely paralyzing.

And our response to that fear is to pull in, to get smaller, to try to mitigate the potential risk by not doing too much in any one area. We dabble a little here and a little there, ever dipping our toes into the water, never wanting to go all in.

The results from this strategy range from minimal to moderate success. There is no big failure, but there is also no big success.

Here’s the thing—it is really easy to look at the most successful people and assume that they have always been successful, or that everything they touch turns to gold, or even that they were just born lucky and happened to be in the right place at the right time. But in reality, this is very rarely the case.

Even the most successful people have experienced—and continue to experience—failure. That is the nature of entrepreneurship—some risks will pan out and others won’t. They key is usually to learn from your missteps and to not let a few setbacks stand in your way.

Michael Jordan once famously said, “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

Likewise, Thomas Edison had to try 10,000 versions of the light bulb before he finally figured out what would work.

Steve Jobs was actually fired by the board at Apple at one point. He later said that it was the best thing that ever happened to him, because it spurred more creativity and more ideas than he had ever had before.

Most people don’t know that Henry Ford actually founded two failed motor companies before finding huge success with the Ford Motor company and the Model T.

Bill Gates’ first startup company, Traf-O-Data, was an abject failure. The product barely even worked & the endeavor was a complete disaster. However, that failure taught him some very valuable lessons that he was able to apply when he started his new company, Microsoft, a few years later.

One of my favorite quotes of all time is from Winston Churchill who said, “success is not final, failure is not fatal, it is only the courage to continue that matters.

While failure isn’t fun to think about, I don’t want that fear of failing to be what holds you back from thinking big. The reality is that you will make mistakes. Everyone does. Think big anyway.

In my own life, I have certainly experienced my share of failures, mistakes, bombs, and missteps. My first marriage ended in divorce. I dropped out of law school. I got fired. I filed for bankruptcy. I trusted someone I shouldn’t have, only to have the situation blow up in my face. Even in my business, I have hired the wrong people, made giant mistakes, and invested in projects that have been nothing but big money losers.

But I’ve also learned that this is just part of life. If I spend my time beating myself for the mistakes I make, I won’t have any time to focus on the things that are going well. Being successful in life is all about learning to think BIG in order to maximize your success.

Personal Goal Setting

Setting Your Big Goals

When setting your big goals, don’t be afraid to start with a grand vision—a life list, similar to the one that Lou Holtz came up with after reading The Magic of Thinking Big. To help you focus, try dividing it into different categories—family, financial, professional, and personal.

As you let yourself dream about the future in these different areas, be conscious of the limiting beliefs that begin creeping in to your thoughts. Recognize them for what they are—limiting beliefs—and allow yourself to write down even the craziest, most audacious goals and dreams without judgment or self-editing. Don’t worry either about setting time limits or making them perfect—just write whatever comes to mind.

In other words? Think BIG.

And so, my question for you today is this: how bad do you want it? Are you reaching for a dream so big it scares you? And if not, why not? Push yourself to make it bigger until you feel that spark, that hunger, and then you will know you’re on the right track.


Ever wonder why some people are able to achieve all those things they set out to do, while others seem to just sit there making excuses, worrying about all the things that could go wrong, or waiting for circumstances to be perfect?  The truth is that it often not that are goals and dreams are too big, but that they aren't big ENOUGH. The magic of thinking big is that it forces us to take action.  If you are tired of waiting to make your dreams a reality, this is one post you can't afford to miss.  In fact, it might just change everything!


  1. August 8 at 08:11AM

    I really like this! This is SO helpful because it deals with life every day. I look at my own set of “goals” and sometimes see nothing other than some short-term busywork that I’ve noted down for the week. It is so important to START with the big vision and break it down into do-able daily chunks.
    I also think that failing is big on all of our lists. One time something doesn’t go as planned and we think “that’s it, I’m done!” But that’s not it, you just need to go look at that venture again and repurpose it into the success you know it can be. People, on the other hand, not so much. But, life is a learning tool, isn’t it, and I do believe people are some of our biggest lessons.
    It’s Monday and I’m excited about the goals I have set for my week. Hope you are too Ruth!

    • Ruth Soukup
      August 11 at 06:40AM

      Hi Alice,
      I totally agree with you, there are many times in our lives that we struggle just getting “out of the gate.” Praying your week has been awesome so far! 🙂

  2. August 9 at 03:16AM

    This was such a great post, I really love it! Limiting beliefs and fear of failure often stopped me from “thinking big” But I have learned that I don’t grow through my successes, I grow through my failures. I won’t regret failing nearly as much as I will regret not trying. I also focus on Psalm 127:1-2 when it comes to my goals, it takes the pressure off :). Thanks for the encouragement, I will be thinking big this week!

    • Ruth Soukup
      August 11 at 06:45AM

      You are so right! I also love this quote by Mark Twain: “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”

  3. August 9 at 07:45AM

    Fantastic – so my first question is when did you sleep in those early days?? Anyways I read those books years ago – recommendations from my husband and you know what – it’s time to read them again!! Think I will go audio this time. I agree my goals are not big enough. I focus to much on staying in the comfort zone and it’s time to stop that. Thank you this post was perfect timing!!

  4. August 9 at 08:26AM

    This is why I’m committed to being an abundance thinker, and why I encourage all my readers to think that way, too. You’re only limited by your own beliefs.

  5. August 9 at 05:46PM

    I love this post! I fully believe in the magic of thinking big and I try my best to encourage those around me and my readers to do the same. It is possible to live the life of your dreams when you put action behind the goals you set in place. Great post Ruth!

  6. Ruth Soukup
    August 11 at 06:56AM

    Thanks Natalie & Becky! We all need to rally around each other and cheer each other on to achieving our true potential!! 🙂

  7. August 11 at 04:22PM

    This inspired me so much! I’ve been taught smart goal planning all of my life. This was just the fire I needed today! Thank you!!

  8. Angella
    August 12 at 03:26PM

    Thank you so much Ruth! What a fantastic blog!! It really spoke to me. I too need some bigger goals that I believe in. I am frozen trying to get my blog going. I am coming off a big failure at some online selling and I need to get going with my blog. It just feels so overwhelming. I will get those book suggestions for sure! So thankful for what you shared with us!! I especially love the part about focussing on our spouse too!

  9. August 12 at 03:54PM

    My “big stretch” goal is to be able to quit my full time job to become a full-time blogger and eventually make enough so my boyfriend can quit his job and join us. Considering that my blog is currently making nothing, this is a pretty big goal.

    But, as you’ve stated and it’s so true, it gives me something to work for that i’m hungry and passionate for. Even if it’s a really ambitious goal, I’m happy to have it.

  10. Grace
    August 12 at 04:01PM

    I’m so excited to get my planner and I am already starting my Dream Big, Think Big list. I always think of others before myself and I need to re-prioritize me back into my life and my goals. I persisted and got myself and house out of foreclosure and I am determined to stick to my budget and plans!!

  11. August 14 at 04:34PM

    Wow! This is such a wealth of good information. I’ve absolutely been telling myself to set “realistic goals” or “start with small accomplishments”. Thank you for reframing the situation for me. Time to break out those big goals.. which are way more fun anyway. 😀

  12. August 30 at 05:51PM

    Thank you for this inspiring article Ruth! I sat down 2 years ago and set some goals for myself, and made a vision board. I had read something you wrote about goals and you inspired me then….Well I’m happy to say that one of my very important goals has become a reality. Something that seemed nearly impossible at the time is now happening. My Etsy business is thriving and I’m able to bring in some additional income for our growing family of 5, soon to be 6! I thought my goal to have $1000 in sales a month seemed unrealistic, but I am there and over! I dreamed big and worked extremely hard to get here. Now it’s time to THINK BIG again! Thank you for your words of encouragement and I LOVE your blog 🙂 Oh and if you get a chance, come check out my Etsy shop.

    • Ruth Soukup
      August 31 at 06:43AM

      Congratulations Kristin!!!
      That is awesome and so inspiring for other small business owners to hear.
      And the dresses on your Etsy shop are so CUTE!!!
      Just curious, are you part of our Elite Blog Academy?
      Praying for your continued success and growing family 🙂

      • August 31 at 11:39AM

        Awe Thank you Ruth! And I am not part of the Elite Blog Academy. Should I be? 🙂

        • Ruth Soukup
          August 31 at 08:54PM

          Currently registration is closed for EBA but you can read about it here:
          and decide if it is a good fit for you. I think there is a ton of information you could benefit from as a small business owner but then again, I might be a bit bias. 🙂

  13. Dee
    September 25 at 01:24PM

    I really appreciate this post. My problem is not that i don’t have a huge vision. I have a humongous vision but I don’t know how to get there. I’m frustrated!!! I also noticed from your post that you sacrificed in the beginning. I don’t think I’ve done that. I thought I was but now that I read your post I’m not sure I am. You really made me think.

  14. September 27 at 07:26PM

    I have read and re-read this post. My husband is super supportive but works full time plus–he helps out with kids when he can, my friends have no idea what or why and I’m sure think I spend too much time online–that’s the part of this post that resonates with me. But I have a dream, a bug but timid dream to bring my husband home. Since reading this night, my big, timid dream is now BIG and BOLD!

  15. October 24 at 12:36PM

    Thank you for sharing! I love the Winston Churchill quote, too!

  16. Shana
    December 26 at 02:04PM

    You are making a huge difference in my thinking and attitude. Thank you for sharing yourself and what you have learned! I want to be you when I ” grow upward and onward” now if I can set my mind to what I would like to blog “ABOUT”. Hmmmmm.
    Much love,
    Shana Youngblood

  17. Camas
    December 26 at 10:42PM

    While all of this is nice for most people, do you have anything to say for those with CHRONIC DEPRESSION? Cause i’ve taken you’re mini course and I actually came up with some goals (which was a big deal), but it’s still ridiculously hard to get out of bed because even though my life is pretty good, I hate living and don’t want to do it anymore. I have a loving husband, and I don’t have kids but I can’t get anywhere because MY BRAIN WON’T LET ME…

    • Lena Maire
      December 27 at 03:58PM

      Hi Camas,
      I also struggle with chronic depression and, for me, being able to get out of bed, or just get started is so hard. Some things that help me are taking my medication, I take St. John’s wort, and other mood support herbs. I also watch my diet, sugar and caffeine increase my depression, so I limit them. Foods that help me feel good are oranges, and lettuce, so I eat more of them. Also getting outside each day, even for a short time helps tremendously. I don’t know if these things will help you too, but maybe you can figure out what helps you.
      Great big hugs.

    • Ruth Soukup
      December 27 at 09:00PM

      Hi Camas,
      I’m so very sorry you are struggling right now. I too have dealt with depression and know how debilitating it can be. But please try to get yourself some help and know that I’m praying for you. You can read my story here:

      • Camas
        December 27 at 11:47PM

        It’s a great story, but we aren’t the same, I don’t have anything in my past to cause depression, I’m not overwhelmed with anything, in fact I’m bored. But I have tried 4 different therapists and 6 different medications, and I could only do that because it was provided by the college that i’m no longer attending and the family insurance that i don’t get anymore since i married. I don’t have money for anything else. It’s been 7 years so far.

        • Ruth Soukup
          December 28 at 09:53AM

          So sorry Camas, praying 2017 will be the year you can overcome your depression. Praying for you. 🙂

    • December 29 at 01:57PM

      I know where you are coming from. It’s okay that you have depression. It is a teacher, a painful one, but a teacher nonetheless.Get close to depression like a friend not something to be feared.Why is is there? What is it trying to say? I felt like you did. I blogged to try to feel. I watched t.v and later around. It’s okay. But it sounds to me you are ready for change and that is the first step! Awareness is the first step!!!Build on that and that you have power. Just dare to dream you can be free. Eventually the resistant monkey mind will let go and let knew ideas and thoughts. In it takes time! It’s hard but doable. I believe in you! I have many free tools I can share with you! You are not alone!

  18. December 27 at 12:12AM

    I just loved the positivity of this post. I too have a dream of making a living out of this blog. I’ve been blogging for almost 8 years now and have not gotten anywhere. It was only last year that I actually began introspecting and finding out what I was doing wrong. Apart from the technical stuff that I didn’t really know, the main problem was not putting myself first.
    I have to put myself first before I even start taking the first step to dreaming big.
    Thank you for reminding me about that.
    Hope you have a great year ahead.

  19. Beth
    December 27 at 10:52AM

    I am a list maker, when I make do that. Otherwise I respond to each day according to the most pressing need. That is truly so limiting the potential.of each day. I am eager to Think Big and set goals. The idea of focusing on the four areas is helpful. Family. Finances. Profession. Personal. So, I am going to focus on those areas and set goals for those areas. Today.

  20. Rebecca
    December 27 at 06:45PM

    This was your best writing, thank you for what you said. It hit home.

  21. Jennifer
    December 31 at 01:14PM

    I am a bit behind on my email right now so I am reading Day 1 on 12/31. Better late than never! The magic of thinking BIG is very inspiring but I feel like I have a long way to go right now and it feels uphill. I am 57 years old and am finally at a point when I would like to pursue some big goals. Again, better late than never, I guess! I have some debt that will take a couple of more years to pay off and I feel that it is putting everything on hold because I am concentrating on that. Maybe that is the wrong attitude but it is a goal right now. In the meantime, I will keep dreaming of the things I want to do and I will write them all down and start doing some research and find out what I can do presently that doesn’t require a lot of money or none at all. Thank you very much for the boost and inspiration to keep going.

    • Tammy
      January 3 at 12:00PM

      Jennifer, I’m right there with you, age-wise, debt-wise. I also just don’t know what kind of goals to make. My number one goal is to get out of debt, but I just don’t know what else to dream for. That kind of makes me sad. Does it sound dumb to ask, how does one dream, how does one make goals? It seems like everything I think of relates to finances…I feel old and tired and out of ideas.

      • Donna
        December 26 at 09:25AM

        Thank you, Joseph, I was wondering the same thing; am I missing something here?

  22. March 24 at 04:57PM

    Ruth this is such a powerful post. It hits the nail right on the head. Is it okay to post a link to this page from my blog? (When and if I ever get it off the ground.)

  23. July 20 at 11:47PM

    I love love LOVE this! I was just fighting some self-doubt about one of my big goals, and this was a timely read! It was also really enlightening to realize that SMART goals tend to cause you to focus on more of a to-do list, just surviving your life and small successes instead of dreaming big. Thanks so much for the encouragement!

  24. Joseph
    September 7 at 07:33PM

    This is a great article, and very helpful. I was just left wondering: why, why, why on earth would you want your husband to leave an amazing job as an aerospace engineer to become a house dad? Even more puzzling, how could such as motivation be the proud engine behind your success? I must be missing a very important part of the story.

  25. December 27 at 12:28AM

    I enjoyed reading this post. I’m glad I signed up for the Best Week Ever Challenge as I am looking to learn to make this the best year ever! I was very in 2017. I made some moves online such as joining FB and writing more for my blog as well as in my city to help and support others despite my overcoming my level of discomfort of wanting to meet new people. I also made a tough professional move, leaving the school district I taught in for 10 years to one I hadn’t taught in since I was a intern teacher years before. Interviewing was scary! In 2017, I experienced a big failure. I am currently putting a plan to resolve that. This blog post gave me some fuel to flame the fire I need to continue. Michael Jordan, Bill Gates, Henry Ford, Steve Jobs, etc, are all major failures that have succeeded majorly. Your story amazed me as well! Thank you, Ruth!

  26. Rhonda Ibison
    December 27 at 12:45PM

    I quit my job last year with the goal of being a stay at home mom. I had been at my job for 29 years and while I enjoyed my job, I really needed a change. I’ve not been the best at financial planning and at this point need to return to the workforce. This post may be what helps me to set goals larger than “I need a job” Part of leaving my old job was to face fears, fear of failure being top of list. Fear of change a fast second. Thank you, I will be thinking about, working on my BIG right along with the everyday. Too often I let those voices that say “this won’t work”, etc. guide my decisions. I know God had BIG plans for me now to really open myself up to them.

  27. Michelle Salerno
    December 30 at 01:34PM

    I like this so much, I’m sharing it with my 14, 16 & 22 yr old children! Hoping to help them dream BIG early in life!

  28. Stevi
    June 27 at 08:17PM

    Loving the encouragement!

  29. Judy
    December 26 at 09:52AM

    I’m not sure how big I can dream at this stage of my life (72 years old) — but my biggest dream would be to pay off my massive debt before I die so that my kids don’t have to. I’m working toward that goal.

  30. Adreanna
    December 26 at 05:37PM

    I love the information and tips on how to beat the fear of failure! Mine is so bad that I have set up a totally subconscious self sabotage that was pointed out to me by a good friend. Every time I’m doing WELL, or getting close to a goal I’ve set, or a dream coming true, I will inevitably do something that derails everything completely. Almost like saying to myself that I’M going to mess it up before someone or something else does. And I’m not sure how to break that cycle. Ideas anyone? Please????

  31. Sandy
    December 26 at 08:15PM

    Thinking BIG: I have several. And to Judy, I would like to say, If we’re never too old to dream, we’re never too old to Think BIG! I am 75, and my husband passed a year ago one week shy of Christmas. The thing that would hold me back is whether or not I have enough time left to see my dreams come to fruition. But does that mean that I am not going to try, NO, absolutely not. And if I fail, it won’t be the first time. But for now, I want to ENVISION SUCCESS. I want to live comfortably, independently and financially free. I want to conquer my fear of flying and traveling alone so that I can travel unhindered to see my son who lives halfway across the country. I want to eliminate any debt hanging over my head, and eliminate the clutter surrounding my life — physically, mentally and emotionally. I want to keep my promise to my son(s) of their secret Belated Christmas gift (a memoir of their father’s life written by me). Not Belated because of procrastination, but in desiring to give them something of lasting value, the thought came to me just a couple of days prior to Christmas. So, there I’ve said it, now time permitting, I am going to work towards those ends. And probably think of other BIGs along the way.

  32. Alex
    December 27 at 07:17AM

    Thank you so much for this post. It is a reminder to look up and see where we can get our help! And to give wings to the dreams and desires and even great longings that God has built into us. Since Harvey we have had to live in a house and build it with chaos seemingly daily. We are longing to move back to be closer to grands and buy a house that doesn’t just fit us but would also provide a home and a room for fostering a young one that also cries out for someone to call their own family. That’s my big dream. Amen.

  33. Bobbie
    January 1 at 08:54AM

    This is an awesome post! I too have failed at business and had to go back to work but that is okay. I am digging out from debt but dreaming big. I have big dreams but not sure how to reach them. I have read everything but can’t seem to find the step by step instructions on how to reach my goals. I am also struggling on what business to start. My last business was selling private label products and I loved it but made a few huge mistakes that caused some financial issues I am digging out of now. Do I go back to that business or start something different, that is what I am struggling with…where to go from here.

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