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Discover Your Home Away From Home

Who doesn’t love a vacation?

Whether it’s a family road trip, a visit to Disneyland or travel to a big city, vacations give us a chance to bond, make great memories, explore, and embrace new adventure! Most of all, they give us a chance to relax and have fun.

If you’re looking to get away (or if you need to travel for business or pleasure), one of the biggest questions is always “where to stay.”

These days, with the rise of by-owner vacation rentals, companies like Airbnb, Homestay, HomeAway and Roomorama offer global hosting and tons of options and amenities that go beyond the typical hotel, hostel or standard bed & breakfast. We’re no longer forced to book stays at impersonal hotels or bound to staying at whatever hotel has a vacancy sign. (Hooray!)  Better yet, with more space and a full kitchen, you can save a bundle on restaurant costs by cooking at least some of your meals at “home.”

Not to mention the price! If you’re looking to save on your next vacation, rentals can be the way to go!

You get all the personal touches of a bed & breakfast—and oftentimes the owner even hosts so they’re on hand if you have any issues. Plus, you have the advantage of local experience and guidance that goes well beyond a concierge at a hotel desk. You can also find family-friendly and/or pet-friendly hosts, which is a nice personalized touch to ensure your stay is hassle-free.

Convinced yet?

If you’re interested in booking your next trip at a by-owner vacation rental (and saving money), there are a few things you should look for to ensure you have the best and safest experience possible.

1. Consider Your Needs (number of guests, space, kitchen, etc.)

Most by-owner vacation rental sites (such as Airbnb) are very clear about the parameters and accommodations offered. Most offer a wide variety of options, especially in larger cities or popular vacation spots. You don’t have to settle for something that doesn’t meet your needs.

Be realistic about what you’re looking for. Are you traveling with kids? Pets? Do you want a host who lives on-site? Are you comfortable sharing a bathroom with other guests? Are you fine with just a room or do you need a kitchen and living space as well?

With by-owner vacation rentals, you can expect a more personal experience—but you also shouldn’t assume things like transportation, parking or meals will be readily available, unless indicated by your host. In a big city, this isn’t such a concern, but in a small town where the nearest store closes at 8pm, this could be an issue. Be clear about your needs and expectations and read the listings carefully.

2. Read Reviews and Verification

If you’re new to vacation-rentals, read all the online reviews thoroughly before deciding on a host. One bad review doesn’t necessarily mean anything (especially if they complain about things beyond the host’s control, like the weather), but a few questionable reviews should raise red flags.

Most sites verify hosts, meaning they’ve been vetted and reviewed several times, and you can trust what they say. One of the best guidelines I’ve heard is to think of it like a dating website, rather than Hotels.com. Opening up one’s home to outside guests is a pretty personal thing. You want to really get to know your host and they should be comfortable and curious about you, too.

There are “instant rentals” available, but for first-timers, you may want to do some more research and communicate with your potential host before making a decision. It can help you make a choice you’ll be happy and satisfied with in the future.

3. Look at Photos Carefully

Great hosts offer lots of photos of their property so you have a good idea of what the space looks like. Watch for verified photos, which means that guests have reviewed and vouched for the fact that the accommodations are as pictured.

When you’re looking at the photos, keep in mind that this is someone’s home—don’t expect the same perfection or standards you would find at a professional hotel or inn. At the same time, hopefully you’ll notice some personality so you can really get the flavor of your host and get a clear overview of what the space and property looks like.

If you have questions about the photos, communicate with the host. For example, if you’ll need a closet, but you don’t see one pictured in the photos, you should ask! Always review each listing carefully to make sure you’re really comfortable before you book!

4. Always Only Pay Through the Site

You should never “deal offline” with a vacation-rental host. Many sites prohibit off-site deals, plus, it’s a sign that the host isn’t so trustworthy.

Obey your gut instinct when it comes to booking your site and working with your host. This is one case where you can really expect hosts to give you the best deal up front, so there should be NO need to negotiate or try to “talk down” the price. The market is quite competitive and hosts may decline any guests who aren’t willing to pay the expected rate.

Making payments through the site doesn’t completely prevent worst case scenarios, but if you’re going through a host with great reviews and you’ve thoroughly done your research, obeying site rules and adhering to the guidelines just reinforces your positive impressions. You want to know that this is someone you can trust and that they’ll do things as outlined.

5. Consider the Host’s Personality

As you’re considering your host, look at their personality and the style outlined in their reviews. If you’re hoping for someone who will mostly keep to him or herself and just give you a space to stay, look for that in the reviews. If you want someone who will show you a great time, give you a tour of the city, and spend hours “hanging out,” then look for a host that offers a more outgoing style.

Most by-owner vacation hosts have day jobs and may even be renting while they’re out of town, living somewhere else or away. If you’re staying in a foreign city and you think you’ll need guidance and food, and you’d like to really make a connection with someone, you should thoroughly research and gauge your host’s responsiveness.

Similarly, if you have kids or if you’re traveling with pets, be very upfront about it, and ensure your host is kid and pet-friendly. You should go in with the expectation that your host will also be very honest and upfront about their children, pets, friends, engagement, and noise level.

6. Analyze Your Host’s Communication and Comfort

You might be wondering, “Well how do I find out all these things about my host?”

Most sites require a back-and-forth communication with host and guests before the decision to rent. This is so you can get to know your host and vice-versa. Be honest, upfront, friendly, and open with your host. Remember, this is a real live person who is renting out their home or room to you, not a company. It’s okay (and encouraged!) to inject a little personality and friendliness into your correspondence!

There are some “instant rent” options available, and oftentimes, professional companies or contractors in the area run these spaces. While that’s fine, you won’t receive the same level of personalization (like snacks, coffee in the mornings, or suggestions for the best café in town).

If you prefer the personalized experience, look for hosts who are friendly and honest about what they expect and what they can offer.

7. Look for Clear Rules and Guidelines

Newbies especially should look for properties that list clear house rules and guidelines. Not all listings offer these guidelines, but it’s a sign of a thorough host who’s going to keep up their end of the bargain as well.

Rules and guidelines help you know whether or not your host would like you to remove your shoes in the mudroom, if they have preferences when it comes to noise, if they prefer specific arrival and departure times, and similar information. Reading all the rules beforehand will go far in helping you both have a pleasant experience.

Hosts that don’t list clear-cut rules and expectations should still be prepared to answer questions on request. Similarly, if they list their rules, be sure you read them before emailing with questions they’ve already reviewed and answered in their profile.

8. Check for Extended-Stay Rates

While most rates aren’t negotiable, if you’re planning to stay for a week or more, it can be worth it to ask your host about extended-stay options and rates. If you’re traveling for several weeks on a business trip, staying at an owner-hosted rental can bring the consistency and comforts of home during your stay.

Some vacation-rental owners prefer to limit their guests’ stays or aren’t as comfortable with open-ended or extended stays. Others prefer the consistency and reliability of a guest who plans to stay for a longer period of time.

Vacation-rental owners rely on their properties to bring in a regular income, so having a guaranteed renter for a week or two is often worth giving them a discount. It can be win-win for both parties!

9. Check for a Home-Safety Profile

Check to see your potential host offers home-safety guidelines. These guidelines should include local emergency numbers and information about the home. The information should include how to work with and troubleshoot utility problems (like if the furnace or hot water goes out, or there’s a water leak), plus useful information like the WIFI password.

If you run into an emergency and your host isn’t available, the home-safety profile will be your go-to guide, especially in an unfamiliar town or even a foreign city. It’s also important to do a little research beforehand just in case.

Have a good idea of the weather and pack extra layers in case your host’s preferred temperature is a little different from your own. Know where there’s a nearby store, and have an idea of emergency medical and safety services in the area. Follow best “travel practices” and plan ahead, especially if you’re traveling alone or with kids.

10. Consider Parking, Transportation Access and Location

Some by-owner vacation rentals offer access to bikes or extra parking spaces—and some hosts will even pick you up from the airport. Most however, expect you to be responsible for your own transportation, so it’s best to err on the side of precaution unless it’s explicitly stated in the profile.

If you’re visiting a larger city, public transportation might be widely available, or you can rely on Uber or Lyft to get you to your destinations. On the other hand, many smaller cities, even suburbs, don’t have transportation available. The last thing you want is to be late for a meeting or a flight because you weren’t aware that cabs needed to be arranged beforehand or that public transportation routes won’t take you to your destination.

Similarly, many cities, especially during festivals, events and winter months have restrictions on street parking. Don’t assume you can park your rental car right in front of your accommodations or that there will be space available.

With a little planning ahead and some smart screening, you can save a bundle by using by-owner vacation rentals. The prices are often much more reasonable than hotels. The experience is much more personal and unique. It can add to your adventure and help you feel more at home on your trip.

So whether you’re headed to the mountains, to the beach or to a city, check out some of the great sites for vacation rentals and give it a chance! You might even make a few new friends and connections along the way!

Ruth Soukup

Ruth Soukup - LIVING WELL SPENDING LESS. Practical solutions for everyday overwhelm. Food Made Simple, Life Etc., Home 101, Smart Money. Start organizing your whole life today!

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  • I appreciate you saying that renting can be a good option if you want to cut costs on your upcoming holiday. My sister has stated her desire to take a trip. I'll advise her to book a few vacation rentals.

  • Thanks for the tip about finding a host that matches your personal style. I'm hoping that I can reach out to a host to see about renting a vacation home for my family reunion. I'm hoping that I can find a home near a lake so the family will have something to do while on the trip.

  • It was helpful when you said to consider how many rooms you will need. My sister is planning on going on vacation with her husband and kids in a couple of weeks, and they want to look into finding a vacation cabin to stay in. I'll pass these tips along to her as she searches for a vacation rental cabin to stay at for their trip.

  • I love that you recommended checking for a home safety profile. I'm going on vacation next month, and I want to make sure I've got everything covered. I will tell my wife that this is something we need to be on the lookout for. Thanks so much for your timely and expert advice!

  • Thank you for the post on discovering your home away from home. I like the idea to consider your needs and especially the number of guests. You want to be sure you are bookkeeping a large enough rental for everyone. But having more people also means you can split the cost more cheaply.

  • Good read! I agree that if you’re new to vacation-rentals, it is best to read all the online reviews thoroughly before deciding on a host. My friends and I are planning to go on a vacation comes Thanksgiving, and your blog is a big help in making a decision. Thanks for sharing!

  • I have rented through VRBO for many years and now own a vacation rental I rent on VRBO. I agree with everything you said except telling people not to book directly. VRBO now charges a high service charge to the renter so many people want to book directly with me.

  • I've also used Airbnb couple of times and had no problems so far. Apartments we rented were exactly as described and we did get a nice discount for staying two more days (filling the gap between us and the next guest). Apparently, Airbnb does some serious background check of the home owners they are working with.

  • These are great tips, and some that we don't often think about but totally make a difference. The parking one is HUGE! And we always make sure there is a kitchen if we are planning on staying somewhere for more than a couple of nights.

  • Ruth,

    This was very informative. I learned a great deal about planning for a vacation. It is very important to check things out, especially when traveling to a foreign land. Having all the relevant information makes one trip even more enjoyable.

    Thanks.

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