Wonder what you can learn from the generations that came before us? Here are 5 lessons from the Greatest Generation that you should do every, single day.
In the grand scheme of things, I suppose I’m really not that old yet, but I have to admit, sometimes I look at the world around me and I feel old. What happened to the “good old days,” that time before every moment of our life was consumed by the need to do something or go somewhere, before e-mail and texting and Facebook took the place of actual conversations, before a culture of overspending and celebrity worship and instant gratification? I don’t actually know if it has existed in my lifetime, but I long for a time when life was slower, safer, and just a little simpler, when a person’s word meant something, and when everyone knew that hard work was the key to success.
A few weeks ago I wrote a little about our experience of taking care of my mother-in-law during the last few years of her life. Although not without its challenges, I am so, so thankful I was fortunate enough to be able to spend that time with her, and to soak in just a small piece of her wisdom. She was part of what we now call the Greatest Generation, born in Chicago in 1924. Her childhood was shaped by the Depression and she worked as a nurse’s aid during World War II. She was a lifelong Democrat, eternally loyal to FDR for bringing them through that period of history, and forever marked by the experience.
5 Things to Do Every Single Day
Her generation taught us much about life, both the big picture and the day-to-day challenges. It is impossible to capture the depth of an Entire generation in one little blog post, but I do believe that a few of that generation’s best qualities can be summed up as a lesson in five critically important things to do Every. Single. Day:
Work Hard
I worked as a manager for many years, and it never ceased to amaze me how many of my employees felt they should be rewarded every step of the way, regardless of the job they did while they were there. They’d literally think they deserved a raise after a week of simply showing up. There was no commitment, no drive, no pride in what they did; instead, their sense of entitlement far outweighed their effort.
Somewhere along the line, as technology took over and life became more convenient, I think our society lost the understanding that work is supposed to be be hard. That’s why it is called work. The Greatest Generation wasn’t afraid of hard work; on the contrary, they welcomed it, knowing that putting in 100% every single day is the only way to get ahead, and that the best things in life are the ones we work the hardest for.
Step Up
The Greatest Generation was not afraid to step up and take personal responsibility. They didn’t expect someone else to solve their problems; instead, they each realized that they were a critical part of the solution. In fact, they embraced the opportunity to be the solution rather than the problem. Moreover, they were willing to accept the consequences of their actions, whatever they may be.
Don’t Waste
Those who were raised in the Depression seem to have an innate sense of frugality and thriftiness that has been completely lost in our consumer-driven, practically disposable society. That generation knew better than to waste its resources, instead sticking to the mantra of “use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.” They were grateful for what they had, and understood that “stuff” was not the answer, nor the key to a good life.
Love Well
Back in the day, commitment and loyalty mattered. Marriage was for life. There was no underlying idea that if it got too hard you could just quit. The words “for better or for worse” actually meant something. Moreover, people actually trusted each other and a person’s word was usually enough. It was a time where the Golden Rule–Love your neighbor as you love yourself–was actually practiced on a daily basis.
Think Bigger
And although hard work, personal responsibility, frugality, and commitment are important qualities, I think the single most defining characteristic of our Greatest Generation–and the daily rule I most want to emulate–is the sense of purpose, they had. The folks from that era believed whole heartedly in something bigger than themselves, in faith and freedom and opportunity. They were willing to fight for it. They were willing to die for it. Rather than ask, “what’s in it for me,” they looked around them to see what they could do for the cause. They knew their efforts mattered, and they were willing to embrace hardship for the sake of a greater cause.
How would our lives change if we were to follow these five rules every single day?
To recap, here are 5 Things to Do Every Single Day
1. Work Hard
2. Step Up
3. Don’t Waste
4. Love Well
5. Think Bigger
Other great life advice:
- The Magic of Thinking BIG
- 48 Life Skills Everyone Should Learn
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- How to Unspoil Your Kids
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I totally agree! You got to the heart and wrote it well. I was blessed to have 2 sets of grandparents from THAT generation. They were a strong influence in my growing up. They were around, they were envolved they wanted to teach me life lessons learned. I carry a lot of what they taught me in who I am as a person now. I look around and see that the values I was soaked in are in very few people. Hard to see who takes responsiblity for their actions, not clear on who really works hard, its blurred who values marriage, loving with all your heart and honoring the person you choose to be with for life. Or the very clear line of newer is better, your out of date if you don’t buy the latest, or going to fall behind if you don’t keep up. Why on earth would you want to keep that large ziplock bag that you had chips in to reuse agian when there are 20 more in the box? Because the bag IS reuseable, not broken or damaged and a simple rinse and dry ready for the lettuce you just bought at the store. More often than not I hear I can’t, that’s too hard or I don’t know how you do it? The answer is you can do anything, just do it! People are easily distracted from the things that are MOST important. Thank you for writing about these values and the people who lived them. They ARE things people should be living and teaching their children daily.
Ummm, FDR started the mess we have now………
Hi,
Just found your blog post and blog via Pinterest. Someone pinned this article. Very well said!
I particularly liked “Step up” become part of the solution not part of the problem. Sadly , we live in a ‘help me fix my problem’ society.
Growing up my mom used to say “poor planning on your part does not make this an emergency on my part” …Stepping up, would certainly eliminate what most people would deem an emergency today.
Good article,
Patricia
Amazing. And so true. It’s good to see this perspective, and try to live by it. Although I think it’s harder to do. It seems like they kept each other in check.
That is so true Natalie!
Thanks for this post. It touched my heart. Both of my parents were part of the greatest generation. They lived with a wonderful work ethic and instilled it in me. I see some of the younger generation does have this, although it may play out a little differently. My adult children work hard, but will question things they see as pointless, and they try to focus on the work that brings them fulfillment. Your photos are wonderful, and make me want to go through my parent’s old photos, scan and work with them to digitalize.